Stripping the Myth of the Social Stripper Mentality

Stripping the myth of stripping.

It is often asked of women of substance, why do we give stripper such a hard time.?
The most basic response a woman of color, substance and a mother of future members of our society can give is this colon I don't want the natural feminine way, dialysis and natural sexuality to be diluted with Commerce. The simplest explanation for this perception is this, I never want to have to deal with the outcome of a stripper centric society in which monetary means can cover what men naturally covet! I think it creates a natural tendency to monetize a woman's body, natural submissiveness, and it creates a culture of commerce for sexuality.

Stripping the myth includes taking one or the other of exchange out of the equation. Sex for money, sexuality for money, femininity for money, guilelessness for money, and it begins to appear that femininity and Womanhood are on the table for hire. It is what all of this trade and commerce essentially alludes to for the patrons of this sourcing for the scraps of Womanhood.  It seems that these pieces are acceptable, and altogether a little scary when a man has spent so much of his early adult life in the strip club. This is not a slight against women attempting to make money whichever way they can, prostitution shouldn't be a farfetch from this, and truthfully is often synonymous with this commercial Exchange. It may not be legal to be a prostitute, but there is a very thin line between taking your clothes off, shaking your ass, and cracking your legs open for money and inciting taking your clothes off, then opening your legs and allowing as many as you're willing inside your body for money.

There is a point at which this is no longer an argument of decency, there is no conversation about which of these institutions is better or worse than the other, no mother would argue that her daughter's not a prostitute but a stripper, and make that conversation believably reasonable. Anyone that would is enjoying a delusion of her own creation. For what it's worth there is a value system we placed on women, it's not about the value she is actually worth, but what she appears to be worth. The unfortunate dichotomy here is women tend to expect that a woman who appears to have more financially has more commodity in worth. And strippers essentially make more money than most women per hour. Oftentimes this is equated to your value even inside the culture of the strip club. And certainly by men who appear to care more for the idea of what you have then who you are.

I speak particularly from a culture of Atlanta Georgia the capital of the strip club industry! It is a industry that is built on the submission of a woman's dignity and pride in degrees. The submission, begins with the idea that is an acceptable concept to put oneself in ideally for the sake of an income. How little does one have to think of their body being exposed and fondled by strangers in order to put themselves in this kind of industry in the first place. It is also a similar perception by the patrons of such establishments, they assume that these are often broken Barbies. Meaning of woman who has all the looks of an established female entrepreneur, and can use the language... But is often poorly educated, previously abused, has low self-worth and self-esteem, and more often than not has experienced some level of sexual trauma in her lifetime.

There is a growing number of establishments in which the hierarchy is based on clientele. One would think clientele is based on good looks, the ability to dance, the ability to entice and beguiling attractions. That is not always the case, as with women who are often the most sought-after wives and girlfriends, it's not always the prettiest girl that wins that race! The question then is begged, what does a man need With a Stripper. And why would he pay a woman in a club to dance for him, and sleep with him if he could manage it, but not maintain anything else with her? Because she's a person that comes with a whole lot of baggage. Like every single person on the planet. There is a parsing of the person in this exchange. He is paying to not have to deal with her again later. He pays to not have to hear her talk, or wonder how she's feeling today, or consider her as a human being at all! An Android would do just as well. And unfortunately for those women, their jobs are easily replaceable by just such Tech.

I was imagining what it would be like for all those women, if tomorrow a big tech company comes out with a bunch of human-like Android dolls that could do everything a stripper could do. But she couldn't have a real conversation and she didn't have a back story. Would that be an equally acceptable exchange? And what would happen to all the poor strippers? Would they go into the workforce and learn new skills? Would they themselves attempt to become owners of these Androids and make Android brothels? LOL?? Android strip club Owners? Would they suddenly develop other supplemental income and skills to offset a future that would appear dismal in either circumstance? Or would they go into their stripper seniority and live on their savings, assuming there are any? What happens to an old stripper? Much like a new Young shiny stripper I imagine, she's capable as anyone else, find a skill set, find a way, get out of the woman parsing game and grow some dignity! This is no shade on all the people who've assume that shipping is just a job! Where did retired strippers go? If you strip it down to its truth, it is just another job! But one with consequences of a personal nature to each and every individual who participates. It also creates a mentality in the society where this becomes a norm. It also affects every individual who participates. 
Simply put, this mentality is a basis in the creation of the parsing of a woman even when men finally enter into relationships with them. They expect to have what they get at the strip club, for a lot less. If it becomes a mentality that they should be receiving something for every little thing they do in pieces from this woman.
Women dichotomously and similarly feel that they must do more and more to receive the attention a woman should naturally receive from a man she is involved with and committed to. Considering the latter is true. There's a viability to a relationship that is whole, but it requires each person to see the other as whole. Instead of being looked at for her whole self, she's looked at for the holes in herself, both figuratively and literally!

In my book The emotionless pussy monster, we have a conversation opening and an Interactive series on broken Barbies.
The broken Barbie syndrome is accommodated by the idea that you could have been a perfect thing, destroyed by human hands n divided by verbal abuse. While the notion is synonymous with a woman who seen too many hard days, a lady who has been broken down, most often by virtue of naivete... The construct of a beautiful woman being just a bit too high on herself, someone felt the need to bring her down a peg or two! The broke Barbie syndrome is a construct that from its origin is a mental misnomer. First of all there is no such thing as the perfect woman, you can only be perfect for you. Perfect for your life and life circumstances. This is not a one-size-fits-all model no one is! And the emotionless pussy monster I also have a chapter call slot fillers, this is course being the idea that anyone can fit in your slot as long as they meet a certain number of criteria. This person is often likely to switch women out who look similarly and have similar General dispositions, unfortunately overlooking that they are individual human beings with thoughts feelings and Back stories. Both the slot filler and the broke Barbie are often found together. It is the stripper and her John. It is the concept that this guy can have any one of these girls who have beautiful bodies, broken souls, and the light slightly dimmed in their eyes, just enough to accept payment for part of herself. If the broken Barbie is accepting of anything other than all of her parts being mended and repaired, perfectly fitted to her she believe she is, this cycle continues. When the slot filler can't see that his needs will never be met with this repetitive refrain of similar to, he will not get to the satisfaction of the thing he seeks most, the person he faced this model off of. That might require some inward Revelation and self-seeking... But that is far more feared then going broke in a strip club!